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Finding the right masseur -
5 tips to get a great gay massage
1) Ask yourself questions - What are your goals? Are you looking for a relaxed experience, sensual, medical? Are you looking for a particular type of bodywork, what environment (your place or a studio), draped or undraped? What overall experience are you looking for?
2) Ask your massage guy questions - How long have they been massaging? (5 to 10 years+ is great) What is their focus? (energy work, therapeutic work, sensual/erotic) What styles of massage do they practice? Where do they do their massage? If they have literature, read it. Do they listen when you talk to them?
3) Get referrals from your friends - Get referrals from gay friends and masseurs you already use.
4) Do internet research - Is there any review information available about them online? Read gay massage reviews. (massagem4m.com, gaymassagenow.com)
5) Experiment - Try out new guys whenever you can and network.
Want to get the most enjoyment out of your massage session?
- Discuss any concerns you have.
- Don't eat or drink a lot before your session.
- Don't rush to make it to your appointment.
- If your mind races or you tighten up, just focus on his touch.
- Don't get up right away afterward.
